He had a thyroid condition when we adopted him at 4 yrs of age. we were not told about this. The Vet told us. We knew he was overweight but didn't know why. He is now 9 plus yrs old. I know he's in pain, I can see it in his eyes. Every time I discuss the issue of putting him ou of his misery, Sundance manages to gallop up to me and shake his head no. Seriously. I am not kidding here. I am going to give him his last supper. Any suggestions on food and how I can handle my future loss will be appreciated. Diana
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May I go now
Don't you think the time is right?
May I say good-bye to pain-filled days
and endless lonely nights?
I've lived my life and done my best,
an example tried to be,
So can I take that step beyond
and set my spirit free?
I didn't want to go at first.
I fought with all my might!
But something seems to draw me now
to a warm and loving light.
I want to go! I really do!
It's difficult to stay.
But I will try as best I can
to live just one more day .
To give you time to care for me
and share your love and fears.
I know you're sad and are afraid
because I see your tears.
I'll not be far, I promise that,
and hope you'll always know
that my spirit will be close to you
wherever you may go.
Thank you so for loving me.
You know I loved you too.
That's why it's hard to say good-bye
and end this life with you.
So hold me now, just one more time,
and let me hear you say,
because you care so much for me,
you'll let me go today.
Copyright 漏 Susan A. Jackson
Written for a beloved pet and friend.
Please dont put him down!! This is toooooooooo sad! = (
sorry that your going through this but i guess sundances last meal should be whatever he likes the best, for instance every birthday my dogs get a meat loaf birthday cake that they love, but when their sick they tend not to eat much, what does your vet say??
putting pets down is very hard but don't you wish we humans had the same option?
Awwww..so sorry. As for his last supper give him his favorite. I am so sorry for you and him. As for the future, since you have lots of love to give, go ahead and get another dog to love. Beleive me, I have been through this. Even though it is unimaginable now to think of loving another, the love will come and you will be so glad you did.
Are you sure there is nothing else you can do for your pet? This kind of thing is so very difficult to do. My heart goes out to you and Sundance. If he is in pain, then this is the best love you can give him..eternal rest. Peace be with you.
I am speaking from my heart and our own experiences (s) with putting our beloved animals down.it is going to be realistically very difficult for you as the owners of your "sundance".it will take some time to have your heart heal..I dont recommend going out too soon to find an "another addition" to your family, i dont think of our new puppy honey bun as a replacement to our Fluffy..I stayed in the room while the vet did what he had to do, i was inconsolable for that time and for days afterwards, so was my dear hubby and my father..we had her for over 15 yrs and her health had deteriorated to the point i was carrying her around with a towel under her bottom, and she was unable to walk and take care of herself so i knew that it was long overdue.my heart goes out to you, and theres not really much more i can say.i hope you have many photos that you can put together for a memory album.your doggie will live in your heart and memories for time to come..God bless you.Sharon T. from Ohio
please keep in touch with me, i might be able to help you thru this too..
First off I'm sending you a hug. It's a hard thing to know when it's time to stop the suffering! I would let him eat his favorite food no matter what it is. A good book is chicken soup for the pet lovers soul, there is a story where a lady has her poodle put down and she lets her eat klenix before putting her down, because she loved getting into the klenix. Having a memorial would be a good idea, you can let everyone tell a story about Sundance. I would save his collar and have a picture of him framed with his collar. Remeber he will no longer be alive, but he'll always be in your heart!
You are CRAZY!! Hypothyroid (which is the thyroid condition that makes them gain wieght) is easily %26 fairly cheaply treated with medication. Treat him, you will be amazed by the speed of his recovery.
I want to start by saying im sorry you are having to do this to your best friend, It is sad to have to do this but if is for the best of the dog then you have to do it. In the last days that you are with him just treat him like he is the king of your house,, I would let him eat what ever he wants just put down anything you can think of that he might injoy. with the loss part just look at pictures of him and think of the times that he was there with you,,, i know that this going to be hard on you,, cause it was on me I had to do the same thing with my best friend too and that is the way i got thru it was to think of him and looked at pictures of him,,, you are in my thoughts and hope this will help you get though this rough time
I'm so very sorry to hear about Sundance.
Last year I had to have my black lab put down and I remember the pain leading up to and following that awful day. One thing I do remember, and the one thing that brings me comfort, is the stop we made at McDonald's along the way. I bought him an order of 6 chicken mcnuggets and fed them to him during the ride and in the parking lot of the vets. I remember not just the act of feeding him, but the act of looking him in the eyes WHILE feeding him..of truly connecting with him and saying all the things for which there are no words.
It seemed like the least I could do.
I wish you and your family well in the coming days..
I'm so,so very sorry to hear about Sundance. It's a horrid thing to have to do. Pay a visit to rainbowbridge.com this is a site for people who have lost their 4 footed friends, It's very uplifting but have a hankie to the ready Diana. God Bless you both.
Mick.
I know how this feels. It's a horrible feeling. What about pain killers to help him out? Also, hypothyroid is a treatable condition w/ cheap drugs that your vet can prescribe for you. And if you feel your vet can't help you anymore, then it might be time to go to another vet and get a second opinion. If your dog still has life in him, I would not put him to sleep.
my heart goes out to you in this difficult choice, and i'm challenged to not say, please reconsider.
if you ~must~ do this on tuesday, please have others with you - this is not an appointment you should face with only you and sundance.
although sundance's appetite might be waning, why not take your best four-legged friend to the pet store and let him pick? at the same time, if sundance likes soft toys, let him pick one to bring home, allow your "scent" to be on the toy and have this accompany you on tuesday - it's a token momento for sundance to remember you always and to take along with him on his journey. speak to sundance as much as you can between now and tuesday. he listens and understands.
and as for your own emotional "after-care"? treat this like you would any other loss, and keep close with those you love and who bring you joy. may all of you talk, laugh, cry, remember sundance at his best, and tell lots of humourous stories about life with sundance. perhaps you might even benefit from journalling your thoughts and feelings. in other words, express yourself fully on every level.
and tell sundance i love him too, and to say hello with all my love to "herc".
Diana: Very sorry to read your message. I am a dog/pet lover.
It won't be easy. Sheltie will be at the rainbow bridge. I had to put my poodle "Macho" to rest 9-20-04, he was 15.
Do you know of memory-of-pets.com
Stay well
That is so sad, and I know how you are feeling but under a little different circumstances. I had adopted a very large dog from a family who did not inform of the dog's behavior, he was mentally troubled. Thank God he never turned on me but became my best friend. I took his aggressiveness towards people as improper socialization and raising. Well after two years of constantly having this dog at my side and believing he was coming around he viciously attacked a family member. The county ordered him quarantined for 10 days and then he was to be put to sleep. I was devasted and torn apart.I made sure those 10 days were the best he ever had as my heart broke. On that day I was going out of my mind, I could not bring myself to take him in and if it was not for the local police escort (to enforce the order) I do not know if I would have made. But I cooked him 3 huge steaks the night before and 2 more in the morning. I cried the whole time and it still makes me cry four years later. I am so sorry for what you are going through, and I give you credit for loving your dog that much that willing to end his suffering but begin yours. Best thing I can tell you is allow yourself to grieve, and always keep in mind the healthier Sundance as well as the good times. Never second guess your decision because you will only add guilt to the grief. My dog loved the steaks and they were the best thing I could think of. I am sorry and you know in your heart what is best for your dog. SOme people say get another one right away I do not agree with that not until you start to heal. I did volunteer at the SPCA it allowed me to be around dogs and by giving them comfort and love it comforted my heart.
so sorry to hear! spoil him with any thing he likes!! i know how you feel. we had to put our rott. to sleep when he was almost 11. got him when he was 3. make sure to tell your good byes before you leave!! they go real fast! it's hard to do, but a least you love him so much not to let him suffer! my best thing to say is to get another dog, but what until your ready. it helps some!! that way your not trying so hard to live with out him! it will never take the place of him, but it helps fill the void. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Are you putting him down because of the thyroid condition?? Is he on thyroid meds? Don't know why he would be in any pain due to thyroid if his medication is controling it?? I know MANY dogs with thyroid problems that are not in pain! Have you discussed this with the vet.does the vet think he is in pain? I would seriously think it over and discuss with the vet before you make any decisions.he could still have a few good years left in him.9 is not THAT old. Are there other health issues going on? Are the expenses too much for you to afford? Just wondering why you would consider putting him down for just the one problem?
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